Family and Father Experiences

Last week my oldest boy, who is five years old, started school for the first time. The very first day we as parents were invited to come together with our child. So Deborah and I got a babysitter and went. We had a great time.

On Sunday, as I contemplated this new experience for us, I thought about the many different ways my family and I had been blessed and have grown over the past five years. First, it was obvious to me how much my son had grown - from the day he was born to this first day of school. It's amazing how fast children develop and learn. As a father, I was very proud of all that Dallin had learned and the little person he had become.

But I also thought about how much I myself had grown. I have had many experiences over the past five years that have taught me much. I earned two degrees at Universities, I have moved three times to new and far away places from home, I have worked in new jobs with new people, and have served in different ways in the church. However, I became convinced that the one thing that has caused me the greatest and most important growth, was to become a father. As a father I have learned a much more about living with love, providing service, putting others first, being patient, how to teach, and how to be a good example.

Modern prophets have taught us a lot about the importance of families and I so grateful that for my own family and to the blessing it is to be a father. I am so grateful that the church helps me understand how to best teach my children and raise them to be good, honest people in our community, country and world. (What is the best way to teach a 2, 3, or 4, year old? The church has really helped me know how to do this much better than I ever could have done on my own!)
I am grateful to my Heavenly Father for these experiences and blessings and grateful for modern prophets and Priesthood leaders that teach me so much!

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